Jan 04 2009
children’s book giveaway
I’ve had the opportunity to pre-read a new book, National Security Mom. It’s written by a woman, Gina M. Bennett, who is both a mother and a counter-terrorism expert in the US government. She draws some logical, slap-your-head-and-say-duh parallels between fighting terrorism and parenting, but what I find most appealing is her discussion about how men and women view security.
Here’s the example she uses in her book: ask a man and a woman what they do to keep their family secure. Both will talk about financial stability, locks on the doors and that kind of thing, but women will also talk about the abstract, the feelings part of security. So, when we talk about national security, we must also talk about the intangible pieces - the parts that make our country so great, even when we’re under fire.
That part really got to me.
The book is nicely non-partisan as well, which is always appreciated for family gatherings.
To celebrate the wisdom of mamas, I’m giving away a copy of Gina’s kid’s book Everything We Need to Know About National Security We Can Learn from Our Kids! This book is limited edition and not sold in stores - how cool is that?
To enter, leave a comment with a parenting tip that could also be used to improve national security. Mine, after waking up to find Hurricane Eva had snuck past the borders of her room and into mine, is that I will not compromise on bedroom (or border) security, no matter what the cost.
This giveaway will close at midnight, January 15. Check back here tomorrow for a Pampered Chef giveaway and the Pampered Chef sale I promised weeks ago! (derailed by my illness, but ready to go!)
This book sounds amazing! I’m crossing my fingers that I’ll win.
When dealing with toxic waste (at our house - an icky diaper), always do so in an area that is easily cleanable.
We learn from children…If there is a baby gate in a doorway or hallway (or fence at the border) someone will try to get over to the other side.
Children need to learn: When you find a (baby) gate crossing your path…don’t climb over it or try to open it…stay on your side. The baby gate is there for a good reason, mommy (our country) doesn’t want you on the other side.
I think it is important to monitor what your kids are doing on the internet.
I have found that slowing down and really listening to what she is say makes all the difference. It heads problems off before they start.
Always trust your instincts. If there is a situation you don’t feel comfortable leaving your child in-follow your gut.
I agree with trust your instincts…. moms always know best! Thanks.
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Keep a lock on the good stuff, as in keep the cookies up high and out of reach.
Since my son is only 4 months old, I don’t have a lot of tips
i agree with those who have said trust your instincts though. Also, I think getting advice from those who have been in the situation before is key!
When other children (countries) are bullying you, hold you ground and stay strong. Respect yourself and don’t let anyone push you around (I tell my daughter this). Thanks!
Some information is top secret and needs to stay that way for health, safety and overall well-being.
We have 4 kids, and so a busy house is a lot like a community. To function efficiently and in peace, everyone must obey the rule: Your rights end where another’s begin.
Please forgive my intrusion into the contest, but I wanted to say how much I am enjoying the parenting/national security tips! I wish you were all my colleagues … we could use such sound and logical thinking!
I tell my children age 3 and 5 often, “I don’t negotiate with terrorists!” When Mom says no the answer is no! This book would just confirm what I’ve thought for years, there are major comparisons to be made between parenting and national security.